if u except u lost ur vaginity, then u've lost ur vaginity...if u know wat i mean... wat i mean to say is, i wouldnt consider a real crap experience such as a quick dip or something u didnt enjoy at all to be a loss of vaginity, i think its more mental than physical
i agree because the way i lost mines really sucked.. it was like 2 seconds in our keyboard lab AT SCHOOL! it was awful. but we did it again and it was real, but still i concider it the day in the keyboard lab the day i lost it. when i talk about it to people i tell them the whole story!
Most folks would say that someone only loses their virginity through vaginal intercourse. Personally I believe that a person loses their virginity when they believe they have...so, if someone (either male or female) believes that they are no longer a virgin...then they aren't. But in the literal sense, its vaginal intercourse that removes that status, particularly for females.
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i agree because the way i lost mines really sucked.. it was like 2 seconds in our keyboard lab AT SCHOOL! it was awful. but we did it again and it was real, but still i concider it the day in the keyboard lab the day i lost it. when i talk about it to people i tell them the whole story!
Ok I'd like to hear about hos you managed to have sex in school? lol I'm curious.
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To get really specific about it, a virgin is usually defined as someone who hasn't had sexual intercourse, and sexual intercourse is usually defined as the insertion of the penis into the vagina.
That said, there are different ways people look at the various sex acts and you can lose your 'virginity' to each one of them individually. Like, some people could consider themselves an oral sex virgin, or an anal sex virgin. Basically, it would mean you have never done a specific act before. Many homosexuals would technically still be virgins if they never had male/female intercourse, but they certainly don't see themselves that way if they've been sexually active with their partner. They've lost their 'virginity' doing things that relate to them.
Anyway, to the original question, I would see it as that person has lost their "back door" virginity (assuming by 'back' he meant anal), but is still a straight sex virgin.
