Sounds like somebody was having sex before they were ready, its amazing at how many girls put out without realising what a big risk they're taking.
First go see a doctor right away... if this just happened like less than 72 hours ago you can get the 'morning after pill' like GO RIGHT NOW to a walkin clinic! HURRY if you still have time, tell the doctor everything...
If its to late for the morning after pill get tested to see if you're knocked up or not... If you are tell your parents right away, there'll be hell to pay but you can't keep this hidden, consider what sort changes to your life having a child would do... talk to a councillor at school or your doctor... but your school councillor should be able to help you sort this out... This is a serious issue and there's no time for hesitation because you're embarrased or shy about the issue, face it head on. Bring your boyfriend with you too if you want. If you'er knocked up, consider abortion, you'll lose out on their youth if you have a child, your school will be put on hold, the child will have to be raised by teen parents and probably grow with alot of problems and issues...
However I'm not all pro-abortion, its just usually the logical choice... I do know success stories too, the sister of one of my Ex girlfriends had a child at 17, her and her boyfriend are very much in love and make an extremely good and mature couple... so it really depends on your situation, generally an abortion would be a good idea for a teen in your situation, but thats why you go the councillor to sort things out... if you're ready and the situation might work for you great, if not, get an abortion ASAP while its still a mass of tissue and cells, before it starts developing a central nerv system and other body parts, etc...
I've never had a situation like this, but a handful of friends have, good luck.
Originally Posted by mariahismyworld
ok people..im in a big mess!!!!...i might be pregnant...im 16 years old..and my bf and i had sex..and the condom broke..and alot of his "stuff" got in me...all of it did...and im scared to death that im pregnant...and my bf is so scared!..he wants a kid..he's 19..but then he's really scared and ****..and he's all being different..i dont wanna be pregnant..he wants to have a kid ..im so confused...he wanted it..but now that it might happen he's all depressed...and i dont even want this..this was all an accident!..im so scared...someone tell me what the hell to do