Re: Decisions, Decisions
You've already drawn your first line by stating you don't sex. So the hard part isn't going to be what you don't want, it's defining what you do want. First rule, if you do end up going further than planned, be ready with adequate protection, because like you said, he is only visiting for the holidays, you don't want any "gifts that keep on giving" if you know what I mean. If you are leaning towards fingering, hand jobs, oral, gather up whatever protection or devices you'll need and set your lines strongly. Don't be affraid to cut htings off if you find them going too far too fast. You are the only one that knows these boundaries, but things happen, so just protect yourself.