a long time...
Hi, i've recently started going out with a guy and the relationship seems to be going fine. We're quite open in what we talk about - which is a new thing for me, but he doesn't seem to mind - and he told me that he takes a fair while to ejaculate during both sex and hand/oral. Whilst we haven't had sex yet, we have gone down on each other a few times since we started dating and he is yet to finish. He also told me that it's only happened once with a girl. [Just a note: although he has difficulty ejaculate, he can get aroused just fine] He assures me that it isn't anything I was/wasnt doing, and he feels really stupid because of these so called 'difficulties'. I don't want him to stress about it - I don't really mind - but I can see that it bothers him. I wanted to know if anyone else has had these sorts of troubles and how I can reassure him/make him relax about it. If it's of any relevance, i'm 17 and he's 19.
Last edited by bfl; 12-17-2003 at 12:23 AM.
Reason: inappropriate language, note "ejaculation" was subsituted