I read the FAQ up top and it seemed to help a bit, but here is my situation
Basically a few days ago me and my gf were messin around, and she gave a BJ and i ended up ejaculating into a few kleenex's or something.. A bit might of got on my left hand but i wiped it off, im pretty sure it didn't on my right. about 5 minutes after that, I fingerred her for a bit with my right hand. So if there was any semen on my hand, it would be the smallest bit, and I know that it only takes one sperm, but would it be a BIG chance of preg. if there was like, not a very noticable amount if any semen on my fingers at all? maybe im just scared, but i think im going to think twice now. thanks
Well, to allay your fears first and foremost, the chances of her getting pregnant are slight, if you only had a little or no semen on your hand.
Secondly, you definately need to pay more attention. If there's even .1% of a chance that there's semen on your hands, always wash them before you finger a girl or do anything near her vagina.
You're saying she can't get pregnant because she's catholic and you don't have sex. And thusly that's why you think it's pointless to get on the pill.
But you're here asking questions about the likelihood of her being pregnant.
I still stand by my original statement -- if she were on the pill, you wouldn't have to worry about these things. There's other benefits besides just not getting pregnant; I took the pill for a couple of years while celibate expressly because they kept my period-cramps under control.
And as always, I will question the religious validity of abstaining from intercourse with the intention of engaging in every other lustful activity under the sun.
If you want to be truly safe, (re: pregnancy anyway as somebody is going to come up with the herpetic example,) stick to kissing.
