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Old 01-04-2004, 06:40 PM   #1
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Ok, for those teens out there, boys or girls, who are still virgins, this is for you! Would you guys/girls lose your virginity when your a teen? I got close once but things didn't work out, and i got like really really horny and i am a girl. But now i think i got all of my hormones out of my body because i don't feel the urges as badly to have sex, by the way i am a girl. In some ways i felt like a guy, i wanted guys and had fantasies about them in class and i am lucky i don't have a penis or else i would've got a boner in class.lol but anywho so yea now that I have settled my hormones i have been thinking that i want to wait for that "right person" to lose my virginity to because it needs to be special. So yea....I mean i will "Hook-up" just not getting farther than oral. Thats all anywho what do u guys think?

 
Old 01-04-2004, 06:47 PM   #2
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Ok, for those teens out there, boys or girls, who are still virgins, this is for you! Would you guys/girls lose your virginity when your a teen? I got close once but things didn't work out, and i got like really really horny and i am a girl. But now i think i got all of my hormones out of my body because i don't feel the urges as badly to have sex, by the way i am a girl. In some ways i felt like a guy, i wanted guys and had fantasies about them in class and i am lucky i don't have a penis or else i would've got a boner in class.lol but anywho so yea now that I have settled my hormones i have been thinking that i want to wait for that "right person" to lose my virginity to because it needs to be special. So yea....I mean i will "Hook-up" just not getting farther than oral. Thats all anywho what do u guys think?
I know what you mean.Sometimes the urges can overpower your reasoning.I lost my virginity about a month ago and I have absolutely no regrets whatsoever.The guy Im with is someone who that even if we broke up or something happened,we would always be friends.I dont regret one bit of it.I think of it kind of like,well,if I move away and then Ill meet other guys and Ill always wish that I would have had this guy as my first because I truly love him and he loves me.The last guy I was with,I was going to sleep with him because I thought it was right but turns out he wasnt but dam were the urges ever strong.

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Old 01-05-2004, 04:23 AM   #3
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Re: Virginity Question

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Ok, for those teens out there, boys or girls, who are still virgins, this is for you! Would you guys/girls lose your virginity when your a teen? I got close once but things didn't work out, and i got like really really horny and i am a girl. But now i think i got all of my hormones out of my body because i don't feel the urges as badly to have sex, by the way i am a girl. In some ways i felt like a guy, i wanted guys and had fantasies about them in class and i am lucky i don't have a penis or else i would've got a boner in class.lol but anywho so yea now that I have settled my hormones i have been thinking that i want to wait for that "right person" to lose my virginity to because it needs to be special. So yea....I mean i will "Hook-up" just not getting farther than oral. Thats all anywho what do u guys think?
I'm a male and 16, I also got close once but it just didn't happen, I wan't it to be special.. A super special moment, with a super special person! That was not a very special moment or a very special person, good thing, cause she kinda... dropped me the next day. If I lost it as a teen, or as a full fledged adult, it wouldn't matter. I don't think I'm super interested in it anyways. If I stayed with this girl that I'm "with" forever without having sex, I really don't think it'd make a difference. I'm really happy the way it is. I try not to dwel on it much. Do you by anychance masturbate?

 
Old 01-05-2004, 01:00 PM   #4
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If you do end up having sex, save it for someone special! I lost my virginity when I was 16, and I have no regrets as I really loved him.

 
Old 01-05-2004, 05:02 PM   #5
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I want to point out that these unspecial "Hook-ups" carry potential for disease just the same as sex does, and that "hooking up" with several people is considered promiscuous (slutty) behaviour, whether or not you are a virgin.

Have some respect for your body and reserve the whole sex act (not just intercourse) for somebody special. It's something that feminists and sex columnists like Josey Vogels and Sue Johanson have been trying to debunk for years -- that penetration = sex. If you've had oral sex with people, YOU HAVE HAD SEX!

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