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Old 01-06-2004, 01:33 PM   #1
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Orgasm but no ejaculation?

I am writing this on behalf of my boyfriend as we are both confused as to why this happened.

About a week or so ago I was giving my boyfriend oral. It was by no means the first time, but this time it was kinda different. It took ages for him to reach an orgasm (about half an hour or maybe even more) and when he finally did get there he didn't ejaculate.

He swears he definitely felt it, but we're confused as to why this was.

Has this happened to anybody else and do you know the reasons behind it?

The only reason we can think of is the fact he'd been drinking earlier on, although we're not sure what difference this would make.

 
Old 01-06-2004, 02:34 PM   #2
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Re: Orgasm but no ejaculation?

The drinking would make it harder for him to reach it... but I don't think he did at all, something would have come out, he probably faked it so you'd stop.

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I am writing this on behalf of my boyfriend as we are both confused as to why this happened.

About a week or so ago I was giving my boyfriend oral. It was by no means the first time, but this time it was kinda different. It took ages for him to reach an orgasm (about half an hour or maybe even more) and when he finally did get there he didn't ejaculate.

He swears he definitely felt it, but we're confused as to why this was.

Has this happened to anybody else and do you know the reasons behind it?

The only reason we can think of is the fact he'd been drinking earlier on, although we're not sure what difference this would make.

 
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Old 01-06-2004, 03:04 PM   #3
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Re: Orgasm but no ejaculation?

I agree. There are feelings that you can have that are close to an orgasm. He would have ejaculated something. Did he get soft after this? Did he go jack off in the bathroom? Someone is not telling the truth.

 
Old 01-07-2004, 05:06 AM   #4
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Re: Orgasm but no ejaculation?

Thank you both for your replies but I am as certain as I can be without actually knowing that he didn't fake it. I know he would do that as he has said in the past that he would rather me not react to anything than fake it as it's deceitful. He wouldn't be so shallow as to be such a hypocrit.

And no, he didn't go jack off in the bathroom, I was with him the entire time afterwards.

I just took his word for it that he did orgasm. I figured he knows how it feels for him better than I do.

This has just never happened before and we were somewhat confused by it. I don't think he would be as confused as he is if he were lying.

 
Old 01-09-2004, 02:57 PM   #5
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Re: Orgasm but no ejaculation?

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I see you;re point but did he sustain his erection after this?.. if he did then id be a little bit conserend
No he didn't.

Maybe he did just mistaken just a feeling in the build up for the actual orgasm, but i'm pretty sure he knows the difference by now.

I have no reason to doubt his word.

 
Old 01-11-2004, 09:27 PM   #6
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Re: Orgasm but no ejaculation?

Kwackers,

This has happened to me before but VERY rarely. It has only happened when it takes forever to orgasm or when I tried to stop to prolong sex. In both cases I was still hard so even though it is rare it does happen.

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Old 01-12-2004, 06:36 AM   #7
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Re: Orgasm but no ejaculation?

ok big deal if he did not ejaculate its happend to me b4 it will ejaculate eventully but each time he does not consider urself and himself to be luckey no clean up after

 
Old 01-12-2004, 06:50 AM   #8
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Re: Orgasm but no ejaculation?

Actually it isnt that rare and it can happen in which a guy can orgasm without ejaculating and even ejaculate without orgasming and in the before mentioned maintain an erection after orgasm.
There are a few books out there that explain it but this is from a book I have.
The following is from the book The Multi-Orgasmic Couple. By Chia and Abrams

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Old 01-12-2004, 12:48 PM   #9
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Re: Orgasm but no ejaculation?

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Actually it isnt that rare and it can happen in which a guy can orgasm without ejaculating and even ejaculate without orgasming and in the before mentioned maintain an erection after orgasm.
There are a few books out there that explain it but this is from a book I have.
The following is from the book The Multi-Orgasmic Couple. By Chia and Abrams

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Cheers, that's answered a lot for me

And nostrings, it's a rare occurance for him too, it was the first and only time it happened.

Thanks to everyone who replied to my post.

 
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