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Old 01-07-2004, 08:50 PM   #1
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Hey I have a steady boyfriend and we do oral sex (never had sex yet) but we do oral sex on eachother and when he does it to me I never C*M and I dont know why I need some tips or something..Is there something wrong with me I need to be aware of??? I mean it feels good but then its like okay...and he can sit there and finger me for hours and it feels great but i don't orgasm HELP PLEASE!!! and thank you! Please help me i'm really starting to worry about this and so is he he doesnt know if he's doing it wrong or what...

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Re: Help me PLEASE...i can't seem to..

Now have you been able to bring yourself to orgasm?? If not then you need to start then by masturbating so you know what works for you. Also if youa re trying to hard to orgasm it wont happen,you have to be relaxed and not stressed for it to happen. Also age can be a factor,most times teen girls cant reach orgasms. Not saying they dont have them just saying most arent i tune with their bodies and arent as into their own sexuality. Those are big factors because if you arent in tune with your body and your sexuality it tends to be harder to orgasm.
But seriously take some time to yourself and masturbate so you know what works for you. Then you can guide your bf in his attempts and it should help.
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Old 01-08-2004, 12:47 PM   #3
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Re: Help me PLEASE...i can't seem to..

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Now have you been able to bring yourself to orgasm?? If not then you need to start then by masturbating so you know what works for you. Also if youa re trying to hard to orgasm it wont happen,you have to be relaxed and not stressed for it to happen. Also age can be a factor,most times teen girls cant reach orgasms. Not saying they dont have them just saying most arent i tune with their bodies and arent as into their own sexuality. Those are big factors because if you arent in tune with your body and your sexuality it tends to be harder to orgasm.
But seriously take some time to yourself and masturbate so you know what works for you. Then you can guide your bf in his attempts and it should help.



No I haven't had an orgasm before i have a problem with that too!!!! iand I am a teenager is that may b a factor i dont know. My b/f is worryed now he said if he will b highly upset if there's something wrong with me like If i can't have kids or something you know. ..i dont know...

 
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Being unable to orgasm and having kids are not usually related (unless you're missing the parts).

Anyway, if you haven't even had one doing it yourself, it is unlikely your bf will be able to do it, so you should concentrate on learing how your body works. You never said how old you are but your age may have something to do with it if you aren't fully matured. The only suggestion I will make is for you to investigate and practice.

 
Old 01-08-2004, 01:03 PM   #5
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Re: Help me PLEASE...i can't seem to..

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Being unable to orgasm and having kids are not usually related (unless you're missing the parts).

Anyway, if you haven't even had one doing it yourself, it is unlikely your bf will be able to do it, so you should concentrate on learing how your body works. You never said how old you are but your age may have something to do with it if you aren't fully matured. The only suggestion I will make is for you to investigate and practice.



I'm 1* ....Thanks for the advice

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