My First Time! - Sexual Health - Teens Message Board

Brujeria · 02-03-2004, 07:48 PM

ok, well i got a problem, well not really but listen up. I'm 17, male....and well i'm a virgin. For the past two weeks now this girl i known since november has been telling me that she wants to have sex with me. Now i really want to have sex, i know i'm ready....BUT I'M SCARED OUT OF MY MINE

...i'm scared 'cause its my first time.....i'm scared 'cause i don't know if my penis is huge enough...i'm scared if i can last more then 5 mins...i masturbate and it takes me a while when i'm in the shower...BUT DAMN...i'm gonna have sex with a girl...I REALLY WANT TO HAVE SEX, so bad, but damn i'm SCARED. She is like a 9 and i'm like a 5....what should i do!...i really want to do this....but scared out of my mine.

**FOR THE GUYS THAT ARE READING THIS, THIS GIRL ... BETTER THAN J.LO

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sk8ter kashaku · 02-03-2004, 09:25 PM

ok dude im 1* also a virgin but i've talked ot sum girls and they say penis size aint eveyrthing ...dont worry aboutt hat if she lieks u she wont mind how big or small....Im also scared of having sex cause u knwo u dont know howto perform... but if shes a virgin also she thinking the same....i say dont worry... do it 4 all the virgin and become a non-virgin...lol sounds wierd but ok.... just dont think of it and GO!wear a condom....

xdiiiidx · 02-03-2004, 09:35 PM

Maybe you aren't ready.. I think one of the first steps, especially if you are going to lose your virginity, is make sure your comfortable with the person your with. If your comfortable, you'll find most of those symptoms will go away. and yeah, wear a condom

Brujeria · 02-06-2004, 04:41 PM

i know i'm ready...

of course i'm gonna wear a condom

Juliebrat · 02-06-2004, 05:22 PM

Well, while I don't condone the sex habits of minors

IF you ARE gonna do it, just make sure you use a condom, this can't be said enough. Also, just relax. It may be awkward at first, but things will happen like they're supposed to and if you two are in somewhat love, then I'm sure she'll understand that you're nervous. I'm assuming she has been with other guys?