Totally normal. If you see a hot girl and you get hard it's normal for a little *** to come out. However, everytime you get an errection you shouldn't precum.
Robin: Yes it is totally normal to get precum with sexual thoughts and erections. Some guys, like yourself, produce a lot while others never produce any at all. I'm in the latter category. There's nothing you can do about it though. It's just the way you are.
Robin - I too produce alot of precum, and just like you, I only have to think certain things, and out it comes - no pun intended. I, for the most part, enjoy it, because its saves me on lube while masterbating! On the downside though, it can get pretty messy and when fooling around with somebody, they reach their hand down there, and my underwear is all soaked.
I have been like this for as long as I can remember. The only time that I ever failed to produce any precum, was during a few months while I was on a certain prescribed medication. But I also could not *** while on it either. After I stopped taking the med, and it had completely left my system, I was back to soaking my drawers once again.
So, there are other out there like you, and like me.
I'm similar to you, it's not getting hard that produces the precum, it's how "hot" mentally I am. I can be rubbed or played with and be fully hard for a long time and if I'm not really into it mentally I don't get any precum. But on the other hand, I can be mentally aroused, like anticipation of something that really turns me on, or a really vivid fantasy, and I leak like a faucet. I especially leak if I'm both physically and mentally hot, you know really horny, but it's definantly the mental part, not the physical that leads to precum.
Leaking a lot may not be totally "common" but it is normal...some guys leak a lot, some don't. 6foot2 has a good point--being mentally geared up will make it kick in but sometimes it just happens, even when daydreaming, etc. I also leak a lot, and have for as long as I can remember. Happens to me even without an erection too. Can be embarrassing, but not much you can do about it. For "damage control," like during the day if you worry it might show, keep a change of underwear in your bookbag, gym bag, gym locker, etc. Can be a pain in the *** to deal with it, but it's no big deal or serious, and you're not alone, bud. Good luck.
It is perfectly normal. You would be surprised on how this may be a good thing. The advantages are that the girl doesn't need to lube herself up and believe it or not alot of girls get turned on by feeling a wet slick penis that is ready to penetrate. I've never had a bad experience with having this and some girls actually think that they get really wet for me but they don't realize that I'm creating most of it and it never goes dry down there while intercorse. I've noticed that when I use condoms the girls produce lube at the begining but then they stop and eventually they go dry and then it's painfull for them.
I am that way too. Not every single time I get hard, but if it is hard for a while - yes. And yes it's alot. The only problem is making sure there is no wetspot on my pants someone can see if it happens - LOL
I have had an issue where it was a problem of sorts. In my first encounter with a certain girl, she reached down and thought I was already "done". We didn't have sex we just fooled around, so she ended up getting off but alas I didnt.
I'm exactly like 6 foot 2. It's a mental stimulation effect, not a physical, that produces the most precum with me. This is only because when I get physical, I tend to move quickly towards ejaculation; when it's mental, say, surfing porn or chatting about sex online, I like to prolong the arousal for a long time, and I can get pretty wet, without having a full erection.
The most I ever leaked was when I used to lie on my back at a nude beach, and the warm sun would repeatedly stimulate me to an erection, then I would soften, over and over again.