The first time I had sex, it was uncomfortable, but my boyfriend was so sweet to take his time, without getting fustrated, and we ended up just finishing off with oral sex once it became too uncomfortable. We just took our time, and next thing you know, it was wonderful. The first couple times can be uncomfortable, but the main point for her is relaxation, and let her decide. Make sure there is PLENTY of lubrication available, and most of all, DO NOT PUSH HER. (Major turnoff right there. ) Don't expect it to be earth shattering for her, highly unlikely for the first time, but there are other ways to enjoy eachother without penetration. I know it's fustrating, but believe me, all worthwhile once she feels what it's supposed to be like, not what it's like to be forced into it. :-)
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) Don't expect it to be earth shattering for her, highly unlikely for the first time, but there are other ways to enjoy eachother without penetration. I know it's fustrating, but believe me, all worthwhile once she feels what it's supposed to be like, not what it's like to be forced into it. :-) 
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