It is totally differant from girl to girl, also many girls will do it when they are not ready so they aren't properly lubricated or their bodies are not physically ready for sex, which will make sex more painful. Also some girls still have their hymens in tact when they first have sex, it can hurt some girls/women when this breaks.
Some people do not continue to have sex if it is a bad experience, many will continue trying for a number of reasons, because they feel they have to, because they want to be able to have sex with their partner, because it can and most likely will improve once you get used to it.
i havnt had sexual intercourse before but from what i have heard of it it can be painful. not extremely bad but it also depends on the guy. if the guy goes slow.. then it should not hurt as much. if you masterbate alot.. with your fingers it may not hurt as bad. the reason why people keep having it is because sex is shared between two people.. its a love connection and its very sensual. It becomes to feel much better after a while. it should only hurt the first maybe three tiems. if that.
For the majority of women sex gets better the more you do it. Though this does depend on your and your partner.
As for the first time, it only hurt a little for me. More uncomfortable really. If it is taken slowly and you are well lubricated then it shouldn't be too bad.
I lost my virginity 3 days ago as well it hurt soo bad that we couldnt continue. So we tried it again today and it was less painful but still quite uncomfortable. It just depends on what kind of person you are. It may be painful and uncomfortable the first time, just have your boyfriend work slowly with you and you should be fine.
it probably will hurt when the hymen breaks, but if the guy knows his stuff, you should able to sex very comfortably...its all in the prep (foreplay) to prepare the lady for painfree sex
For me it was very painful. I was well lubricated and it took 3 tries. The next 3 times I had sex, it still hurt pretty bad at first. But it got better with time. It just varies from person to person.
well i lost my virginity last night and it didnt hurt at all. but dont expect it to be the perfect thing either because it can be awkward the first time. just dont ever have it for the first time in a car.......but it did feel good, i screamed once because it hurt a little but your so horny that it feels good too....i guess it all depends on the guy and girl, if they are both virgins or how they trully care about each other.....but i dont regret
How bad does sex hurt the first time? 
