i have never had sex with my girlfriend yet. im still a virgin but when i try she always says that she doesnt want to spoil me as a good guy. anyways thats not the point. when i make out with her i always catch her looking away eyes wide open with no expression on her face when i kiss her stomach or her neck. she always says she loves me and tells me im hott but i dont get it plz help
I'm gonna go with the pessimistic view and say that it sounds as if she's kinda using you.
Looking away when your kissing is an obvious sign she's either bored, or atleast has her mind else where, not on the moment where it should be.
Saying she doesn't want to have sex cos she "doesn't to spoil you as a good guy", well. Its original to say the least. It could just be she's not ready for sex. but if she's not a virgin, I would say she just doesn't like you that way, and is in the relationship for something else.
I could be wrong, but these are the same signs my ex showed to me, and that didn't turn out pretty.
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She might think you're good looking but that doesn't mean she's into you sexually. There are a lot of guys that I think are hot but I wouldn't even want to have sex with or be with. Yes, she probably does love you, but I think she's probably afraid to have sex with you. It sounds like she's not ready for it yet and she's making excuses. She's probably not turned on by kissing or being close yet.
that anwsers some questions but i know that she has done stuff in the past she has had sex with 2 other guys and one of them i know from school and she told me that basicaly did everything so now what?
I'm sorry, but i think we can't give a really good advice here. I mean, it can be too many possibilities. Maybe she is not THAT in love with you, or she doesn't feel that attracted by you, or maybe it's true. Maybe she just feels you are a good boy, and she wants to wait because wants the best for you. About she looking away when you are kissing her, well,what can i say? That doesn't sound good, does it? MAYBE it's not an important symptom, and it doesnt mean anything. BUT maybe yes, maybe it's that it's boring for her when you kiss her, or she doesn't feel enough passion for you, or maybe for her it's not so important when you kiss her...who knows? You could talk to her...but i warn you. If you make she feel like you are expecting more than what she is doing, maybe she will feel bad (she will feel you need a better girlfriend), and probably she will want to leave you. I know it's not fear that she leaves you because she knows you should be with a better girlfriend, but it's a possibility...
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