Some questions... - Sexual Health - Teens Message Board

Dal2 · 02-04-2005, 01:24 PM

I am 16 and been in a relationship with a girl for quite some time, I know she wants to have sex but I am a virgin and she aint, I suppose I am quite scared in a way and I dunno what to do, she has only had sex the once but still puts her 1 step ahead of me.

Another thing I am happy with the length of my penis yet the girth is quite small, will this matter much? I am like 6 and a half near 7 inches long but the girth is quite small, Im just worried what she will think

crazygirl01 · 02-04-2005, 01:28 PM

hey if she loves you she shouldnt care.

pcantona · 02-04-2005, 01:38 PM

Don't worry about your size, you will do fine and not leave her disappointed.
Yeah she is 1 step ahead of you and I am sure that it is scary for you. Best advice I can give you is to just relax(Yeah I know this is hard) and just go slow and go with the flow once you get to that stage. If you do not know what to do, educate yourself a little bit about it and listen to her and what she likes. Even if she has done it once before you, it is still scary the first time you do it with a person you just met, so I am sure she is not all fancy and act like she knows everything either. So don't worry, I am sure she is nervous too.

Thisby · 02-04-2005, 02:29 PM

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Originally Posted by Dal2

Im just worried what she will think

She will probably think "woo hoo, a penis! I wonder what he thinks of my ..."

She has her own stuff she's probably worried about and is probably more focussed on what you two are actually going to do and how it's going to go, than on something as insignificant as the girth of your penis.