ok resently me and my ex broke up. cause he said that he was going to college and he did wanna fall in love with me and then have to leave. Well i accepted. But i kinda though that i was for a diffrent reason, Cause he wanted another girl. Well a couple weeks later he finds out that he is not going away to college that he is going to a local college, and he was like i'm thinkin about datin you again. Which made me really happy. Well a month passed by and we talked and acted like we were datin. We still even had sex. But then he started to flirt with another girl. So i started to get jealous. And he knew that. And he told me to get over him and move on. So i took his words and tried. But it was like impossible. But a week later he started coming by again and he started acting like nothing happened.And ever sence then we have been acting like we are datin we just don't see each other as much. And we are still sexually active. It has been about 5 months sence we have borke up. I really love him and thats the only reason. I still talk him and let him come over.I would love to have him back. But sometimes i think he just talks to me enough to keep me after him... like a rebound or something... Is he playing me just for sex... Should i get over him and move on.... I don't know what to do... its driving me crazy.. any advice would help... and sry this message is so long...
I think he's using you. You should get away from him ASAP! I know it's hard breaking up with your first "love" but trust me.. you'll find better. He's deffiantly not worth the trouble.
I agree. Get away from him and move on with your life. there are better fish in the sea. it doesn't sound to me like he is being true and will only hurt you over and over again.
hugs
karen
Yes, you are being used for sex. Forget about this fish and look for a new one in the sea that will treat you better and date you for who you are rather than just to have sex.
I agree with everyone, sounds like he's playing you, hon. Sorry, I kno that stinks to hear, but there are plenty of better guys out there! Tell him it's over for good, and stand up to him if he keeps comin around.