oral - Sexual Health - Teens Message Board

mandar · 02-08-2005, 03:10 PM

so yesterday i gave head for my first time. it was alright i guess but it was kinda weird cuz in a way it grossed me out and i had to keep from gagging. lol. and it didnt taste very good...kinda salty. the only think i can think of is use a flavored condom but i'd feel funny because what if he thinks i dont like without one. idk how else to word this. so yeah. and one more thing, how long does it generally take for the guy to (idk how to word this) let it out? lol. i think i'd probly throw up from being so grossed out if it happenned in my mouth. lol. i know that the guys can tell u when it's coming, and thats what we did b/ i refused to "swallow". lol. thanks for your help. i hope this wasnt too much info. lol.

mandar · 02-08-2005, 03:12 PM

i also heard that if you swallow you could get sick...what's the deal with that?

JoshB · 02-08-2005, 04:42 PM

No you cannot get sick from swallowing semen, that is an amusing myth.

It sounds like you didn't enjoy your experience and you certainly weren't ready for it. If you are still "grossed" out by a penis or the thought of semen then it indicates you are either very young or you shouldn't be engaging in sexual activity.

There is nothing gross about sex, oral or anything linked (within reason) and if you think so then maybe you shouldn't be doing it.

mandar · 02-08-2005, 05:53 PM

no, i dont think it's that im not old enough or ready. i just couldnt stand the saltyness of it. am i the only one like that or what cuz thats how you make it sound?

Regina21 · 02-08-2005, 06:37 PM

Mandar, there is nothing wrong with you if you didn't like doing it. I highly doubt it was your age...it just sounds like you were more INEXPERANCED than anything. (not a bad thing k?) I was like that too. The thought of that part of the body being in my mouth was not exactly a comfortable thought for me in the beggining. But I thought "okay, it was my first time, okay sure it's gonna be a little rough...a little new, but we'll give it another try." It's like sex...it gets better with practice. If you feel you need to get some flavored condoms to get you a little more comfortable, by all means then go for it. I don't know how old you are, but alot of stores (the "adult" stores) that are for ages 18 & older sell flavored oils that you can put on all parts of the body and lick off. They range from strawberry, banana, sex on the beach...you name it. It's not bad tasting what so ever. That might actually help with the "taste" that was not so pleasant for you. You might actually end up surprising yourself and start to enjoy it. Good luck!