kind of a girl's thread..

[Sweetie228]

ok like a month ago me and my boyfriend had sex for 3 hrs straight.. i wasnt that wet anymore towards the 2nd hr and after awhile he did go get some lotion but until then it just killed. Well since then ive had pains down there to pee and stuff but they would come and go. Last night i looked in the mirror and i found a rip in one of the lips (the more inner part of it)... like a cut.. apparently it wont heal, probably from the peeing and wiping etc it doesnt get a chance. So does anyone know what to do? has this happened to anyone else? im sorry if i got too graphic lol but i just dont know what else to do!

[Regina21]

Hey that's happened to me when me and my fiance go....um too long. It would hurt and burn to go to the bathroom. If you happened to go dry and kept going for a few minutes that might have caused a bit of a...i'm trying to think of the right word, but all that's on my tongue is a "rash/burn." As far as the cut goes, keep monitoring it. Maybe you should withhold having sex until it's fully healed. You don't want to infect it perhaps. If it doesn't get any better make sure you get to a Dr.

[comeonnow]

I agree with what the other poster said and if I were you I think I'd hold off on the sex until healed up; you don't want to aggravate it. Three hours is an unusually long time and if it were me, I'd tell the guy to cool it from now on so I don't get sore. I'm glad I never had to worry about a guy going that long because I can certainly see how that would make someone sore... not worth the pain if you ask me. I think even one hour is too long, but that's my opinion. I hope you heal up soon.

[Sweetie228]

thanks yall for the replys! it has helped!