i need help about this.. - Sexual Health - Teens Message Board

donald45671 · 04-02-2005, 02:32 PM

me and my g/f have been together for along time now..we are pretty happy together but never really went that far..sometimes ill move my hand in her area(vaginal) and she puts her hand on mine and like fidles around(rubs my fingers,etc...) but the other day we were alone and we kissed and i went up her shirt and felt her up and i think she liked it...but i want to go a lil further and i dont know what to do..i need help

TryHonesty · 04-02-2005, 02:47 PM

First of all, don't take it too fast. You two probably need to sit down and have a talk about it. Make sure she is comfortable with it too; but please if you decide to engage in more than just that..be SAFE!! good luck.

donald45671 · 04-02-2005, 03:22 PM

well we did talk and she said that she is into doing stuff like that..she wants to try somethings..but i dont know what......one time i described wut id do to her cause she wanted me to tell her..and i did andshe said i made her sooo horny that she would do nething i wanted if i saw her....i just need help on wut not to do and wut might be comfortable for her

TryHonesty · 04-02-2005, 03:27 PM

I suppose if she is telling you that it's ok to do, then it's ok to do! =) While you guys are "havin fun" im sure you will know when the moment is right. In my past relationships guys have said when im comfortable i should make the move. Well i always thought that to be very true and it worked out great. When i was ready, i made the move and it was fine. Maybe you can tell her the same thing. Try new things and if she isnt comfortable let her know she can tell you to stop. In regards of what not to do, there isn't really much i can tell you there just basically what i told you above.

donald45671 · 04-02-2005, 03:46 PM

ok...got it..