help plz - Sexual Health - Teens Message Board

mageulook1 · 04-05-2005, 08:21 AM

well i am below 18 years old i have many girl friends not like dateing just friends we mess around all the time and when i give them hugs and crap i get hard it ticks me off i dont know how to stop it because they just friends and if she knows that i get hard when i hug them it could hurt are friend ship some how

Thisby · 04-05-2005, 04:36 PM

Try to avoid touching them with that part of your body when you hug. Do a forward lean or something. It's not like you have to rub up against them when you're hugging, if you're supposed to be just friends. I mean, would you hug your mother that way?

wrin · 04-05-2005, 11:38 PM

You need not be rubbing your penis on something to get an erection, perhaps it's just feelings of arousal. I imagine as your hormones taper off a little bit and you develop a perfectly platonic relationship with girls it won't be a problem. Like starsyne said, don't worry about controlling your erections. The equipment works. The rest is just being a teenager.

RegularGuy7 · 04-06-2005, 07:59 AM

Hey...I've been there too. Nothing worse than slow dancing with a girl you've had a crush on your whole life, only to get an erection seconds later. It was embaressing at first...but later she said she liked it and even offered to help me do something about it.