insecure - Sexual Health - Teens Message Board

Udontknow07 · 04-08-2005, 03:56 PM

Ok. my boyfriend likes to give me oral and i really enjoy it alot and all..But im really insecure about it..im a very clean person and all but like ive heard stories bout girls not smelling good and stuff like that and im scared he might think that about me and he wont tell me b/c he loves me and he doesnt want to freak me out or make me feel bad...how will i know if everything is ok and what can i do to reassure me on this...thanks

Demi001 · 04-08-2005, 06:50 PM

Hey there well i get that feeling to sometimes so what i did was very simple. Eat a lot of fruit, # 1 fruit i propose is pine apple. THe reason y u should eat a lot of fruit is because that sugars in it will got down to ur little spot so when he gives u oral and u orgasm it will taste good. A friend told me this so try it out. Another thing u can do is don't use scented douche bags cuz they can make u smell. Hope i helped.

veggigoddess · 04-08-2005, 11:58 PM

If you did not smell or taste okay down there he would not be able to preform I'd assume. I know when a female smells icky there it's pretty unbearable. I too am very clean and always wash before my hubby or hubby days went down there. Al you need to do is touch yourself there and sniff your finger to know if you smell okay. There's really nothing more to it. It's like testing if your breath is okay.

mr_economy · 04-09-2005, 03:08 AM

Assuming you bathe regularly and do not have some sort of infection, you really have nothing to worry about. Don't believe the romance novel or Hollywood ideal of oral sex. Every vagina is different, and each will have its own smell, but just because it doesn't smell like a flower garden doesn't need to be a concern.

cazzey · 04-09-2005, 06:43 AM

have a shower before hand, or even use some baby wipes or something or wipes that are specified for vagina area