A little confused....need help - Sexual Health - Teens Message Board

Shadowdogg78 · 05-23-2005, 05:43 PM

Whenever I masturbate, I tihnk about the same sex. Now, afterwards I think about this ,and feel sick in my stomach.Now, I would never want to turn gay ,since I realize how terrible that would be on my future kids.I do feel attracted to girls, and in a both sexual and emotional way.But I never masturbate to them.Is this strange?

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youngmale1989 · 05-24-2005, 04:00 AM

Try experimenting with a male. I have started and I really get turned on by males but I also have a girlfriend so I consider myself to be bi-sexual. If your masterbating over a male then perhaps your also bi, it's nothing to be ashamed of ther are lots of people in your position just enjoy what ever you decide to do
Hope this helps

last1 · 05-24-2005, 05:35 AM

I'm not sure what you fantasize about will predermine your sexual partner. Fantasy is fantasy. Some people fantasize about multiple partners, sexual positions, etc when they masturbate. It is only when you begin to act on these fantasize and make them real that you begin to define your sexuality.
As for experimenting with a guy, I think this could be a dangerous pitfall for someone your age, especially if your start trying to find someone to act out your fantisies. Peer pressure, cultural differences can all lead to a really bad outcome.
For the time being, just do what you do...