Can't ejaculate/stay erect - Sexual Health - Teens Message Board

thederebear · 07-20-2005, 06:10 PM

I lost my virginity to my current girlfriend today, and we've been together for 6 days. I made her orgasm and I had a hard time staying erect and I never ejaculated or had an orgasm... So about 4 hours later I tried to masturbate 3 times to see if I could and it was hard to stay erect and get in the mood, and I still couldn't even get close to ejaculating...

Before I was fine, I don't get it. If it was an issue of me being with her, how come I can't ejaculate when she's not around? Is it possible to have damaged something during the intercourse that has caused this? She was very tight and she said that maybe I just messed something up while I was pushing it in her, and she did bite me a couple times on the very tip of my penis and on my testicles... any help... I'm really worried =/

GLSheridan · 07-20-2005, 09:05 PM

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Originally Posted by thederebear

I lost my virginity to my current girlfriend today, and we've been together for 6 days. I made her orgasm and I had a hard time staying erect and I never ejaculated or had an orgasm... So about 4 hours later I tried to masturbate 3 times to see if I could and it was hard to stay erect and get in the mood, and I still couldn't even get close to ejaculating...

Before I was fine, I don't get it. If it was an issue of me being with her, how come I can't ejaculate when she's not around? Is it possible to have damaged something during the intercourse that has caused this? She was very tight and she said that maybe I just messed something up while I was pushing it in her, and she did bite me a couple times on the very tip of my penis and on my testicles... any help... I'm really worried =/

You're probably trying to hard. When you focus too much on orgasm, it can be difficult to reach the climax. Don't rush things, and don't put so much pressure on yourself.