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Old 09-10-2005, 11:04 PM   #1
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Does it hurt?

Does it hurt to have anal sex for the first time? I'm curious.I'm still a virgin for vagina too..I am afraid that the anal sex will hurt so I told my boyfriend that and he said that is fine with him.He suggest that I get used to having casual sex a few times before anal sex.

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Re: Does it hurt?

If he wants anal sex before normal sex I would say he has a problem. It probably will hurt. I do not know from experience.

 
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Re: Does it hurt?

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If he wants anal sex before normal sex I would say he has a problem. It probably will hurt. I do not know from experience.
Why does he have a problem? He may just want to experience anal sex; with the right girl; or just as a first. I don't see where there is a problem with wanting to try anal before vaginal.

As far as the pain goes, I can't say with any certainty that there will be no discomfort. But you have to be very relaxed and at ease with it. You both need to take it slow and easy, and use lots of lube. To help ease the tension in the anus, you or he may want to try using fingers, to accustom your body to it, and relax you.

Don't push yourself though. If there is pain, something is right. Stop, and try again some other time when you feel more prepared.

Good Luck

 
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Re: Does it hurt?

I was not interested in ever having anal sex because I was afraid it would be too painful. My bf and I talked about it and decided to give it a try. We used lots of Astroglide and he started off very slowly until it was a feeling that I started getting used to. When done right, it should not be painful.

 
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Re: Does it hurt?

If you have a considerate partner who takes things slowly and uses plenty of lube it need not be painful. If it's painful tell him and make sure he is prepared to stop. Also, make sure a condom is used so as to prevent the possible transmission of STD's. Finally, never go from anal intercourse to vaginal intercourse until your partner washes his genitals completely and uses a fresh condom. You can get some serious vaginal infections unless you practice proper hygene.

 
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