Help penis problem - Sexual Health - Teens Message Board

_scotty85 · 09-04-2006, 04:45 AM

i have posted 3 times but no1 replys dnt know if i doin it rite anyways i started having sex wif my gf and i cant ejaculat like shes my first im here i use 2 think it was the comdoms (was using reg ones) now using large ultra thin still cant ejaculat is there somthng wrong wif my penis or wat it gets it and she feels good but i dnt help?

Geoff B · 09-04-2006, 05:23 AM

Can you feel anything much during the act? Do you have a foreskin? If so are you pulling it back before you put the condom on? Also are you in a situation where you can't relax in case you get caught or something like that. Not feeling safe can make it very hard to climax.
Cheers,
Geoff (also from Brisbane)

MrNice · 09-04-2006, 10:05 AM

What could be happening is that you have gotten used to the stimulation you get when you masturbate. Usually the pressue applied to your penis during masturbation is greater than the friction you feel when your penis is inside your partner's vagina. Add to that the effect of the condom which tends to decrease the sensations felt by your penis.

My suggestion is that you vary how you masturbate so that you aren't so dependent on a particular form of stimulation to reach orgasm. You also could try abstaining from masturbation a few days before you next plan on having intercourse. Also try one of the large or oversized condoms. They allow the head of your penis to move about inside the condom which increases the stimulation. A drop or two of a water based lubricant on the inside of the condom helps things too. Also make sure you squeeze the tip of the condom closed as you unroll the condom to prevent air from being trapped in the tip which also can impact sensitivity.

_scotty85 · 09-06-2006, 02:47 AM

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