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Old 11-01-2006, 07:53 PM   #1
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How to ask for oral sex

My gf and I have been going out for 2 months and i want to ask her for oral sex how should i go about it?

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Old 11-02-2006, 09:19 AM   #2
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Re: How to ask for oral sex

Do you want to perform it on her, or her to perform it on you?
Because I know in how things went about with me, I would have felt offended if my hubby would have asked me to perform it on him straight off. Instead he started it out and then later I did it with him. Even now if he was to ask I would still feel offended because with me I think that is something I should willingly want to do with him. If he wants to do oral on me thats fine, and I will returnthe favor but its a willing thing. I say it would be pressuring her into doing something she may not even like.

 
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Old 11-02-2006, 11:44 AM   #3
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Re: How to ask for oral sex

One of the most important factors in an enjoyable, healthy sex life is communication. If you're considering this sexual activity, you should be mature enough to talk to your partner about it first.

You need to ask her what she is comfortable with, how far she wants to go, what she would like to try, etc. Find out about her past experiences and tell her about yours. If you or she have had other partners you need to be honest about that in order to protect yourself against diseases--- remember in this day and age, diseases are more common than you think, and they don't know geographical, social or economic or race boundries, and they can be spread by oral sex. So you just have to be careful. Also, oral sex can be an emotional experience, especially for the female. You need to make sure she is ready for that and that she wants to participate. If she's not ready, don't try to force her. It may seem exciting and adventerous to you, and at your age, I'm sure a very big turn on, but remember, you have your whole life to experience these things.

Just be sensitive with her wishes. If she says no, then you will have to wait until she's ready.

 
Old 11-02-2006, 11:51 AM   #4
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Re: How to ask for oral sex

Simply just ask her if you can do it to her. Most likely she will want to return the favor. If not then wait a bit. Some women just don't do it.

 
Old 11-02-2006, 06:22 PM   #5
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Re: How to ask for oral sex

thanks you guys

 
Old 11-06-2006, 08:50 PM   #6
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Re: How to ask for oral sex

Just one quick thing, that I am pretty sure none of us woman like. Do not start pushing on her head, into that direction. She will do it when she wants to and is ready.

 
Old 11-16-2006, 03:10 PM   #7
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Re: How to ask for oral sex

just wondering, have you asked her to do it on her, and what was her answer?

i am in the same kind of prediciment here so i would like to hear how it goes

cheers

 
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Re: How to ask for oral sex

My boyfriend also performed oral sex on me first and then I did it to him. After he did that to me, I wanted to return the favor.

If you haven't gone near anything like that with her, I would simply bring up a talk about oral sex.. talk about trying it together. So that way you aren't asking HER for it, but suggesting that both of you try it.

Good luck!

 
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