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Old 12-28-2006, 06:32 PM   #1
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Is she pregnant?

I was messing with this girl for a while and we finally had sex. I used a condom She was on top the whole time we had sex. I had the condom on correct. But shes telling me she was throwing up etc...I think myself she is just trying to scare me but idk. But the thing that got me thinking shes not is because when she told me her and her sister was on the phone laffing. Im trying to get her to take a pregnacy test but she wont. What should i do?

 
Old 12-28-2006, 10:03 PM   #2
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Re: Is she pregnant?

She refuses to take a pregnancy test? What the hell...

Just out of curiosity, when you finished, did you look at the condom? I have the habit of taking the condom off and taking a look at it before I toss it. Sometimes I even pinch the opening, trapping air inside like a small balloon, just to make sure it's still air-tight... which of course means that everything should be a-okay.

 
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Old 12-28-2006, 10:44 PM   #3
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What i actuall did was fill da condom up wit water after from da sink and no water leaked. So i know there wasnt any holes or anything in the condom.

 
Old 12-29-2006, 03:48 AM   #4
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well the throwing up could of been happening for a number of reasons like a tummy bug or she may have eaten some bad food. just because you had sex doesnt mean that the throwing up is to do with that especially if you checked the condom afterwards. It sounds to me asthough she should not be pregnant because you said there was no holes in the condom so there shouldnt really be that problem.

Have you asked her why she refuses to take a pregnancy test?

 
Old 12-29-2006, 06:44 AM   #5
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Hello, vener. I think she's just nervous. It's quite common for girls who are not ready to have children. She sounds like one of the many girls who thinks she's ready to have sex when she really isn't.

 
Old 12-29-2006, 08:17 AM   #6
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well the throwing up could of been happening for a number of reasons like a tummy bug or she may have eaten some bad food. just because you had sex doesnt mean that the throwing up is to do with that especially if you checked the condom afterwards. It sounds to me asthough she should not be pregnant because you said there was no holes in the condom so there shouldnt really be that problem.

Have you asked her why she refuses to take a pregnancy test?
She said she took one today and shes pregnant. Which i dont belive untill i see with my own eyes...Im gonna buy one today and go to her house and have her take it and show me the results. If she refuse im going to have to tell her sister she'll knock sense into her.

 
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Re: Is she pregnant?

It sounds like she's just trying to scare you. Why else would she and her sister be laughing about it on the phone? And if you checked the condom and it wasn't leaking, then there's really no reason to think it didn't work.

I think she's being an idiot. I'd stop calling her all together and see what happens. If she comes crawling back to you saying she's pregnant, I'd demand a paternity test, because if she's pregnant, I really doubt it's yours. She has probably been with other guys and one of them got her pregnant.

 
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Don't mean to scare you or anything, but my husband used a condom, he took it out right (by holding it that is) every time we had used one. It never broke, and if there were holes I wasn't sure about because we never checked that part. But I did get pregnant.

He and I were unsmart about being safe for about 4-5 months and had unprotected sex and never did I get pregnant. And when we did knock some sense into ourselves the month and a half using protection I got pregnant.

So she may be, and yes maybe she is actin very childish, but she could be messing with your head and trying to scare you. Teen age girls get that way.


She has to miss a period, or take an HPT the day of her period in order for her to tell when she is pregnant. During ovulation is the only time that she can become pregnant. She will ovulate usually 14 days after her period. But if she has irregular periods she can ovulate at any time.

How long ago was it when you and her had sex? Do you know when her last period was?

But if she is, do a paternity test just in case because as the abouve poster said, she may be pregnant by someone else and not you but just say that you are the father because the other guy may be a dead beat guy

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when she told me her and her sister was on the phone laffing.
So you never actually saw her throwing up, and she told you over the phone - while laughing - that she's pregnant?

Unless she agrees to take a pregnancy test in front of you, tell her to get back to you in 9 months with the baby and the paperwork for a DNA test. I think she's full of it and you shouldn't let her have her laughs at your expense.

 
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How long ago did you have sex? If it was just a couple of nights ago, it is WAY too soon for pregnancy symptoms like throwing up to occur. For most women, I think morning sickness starts happening around 4-6 weeks or so into the pregnancy. If you just had sex a couple nights ago, I doubt she could be feeling pregnancy symptoms so soon even if she is pregnant. Condoms have been known to fail but they are a pretty effective means of protection against pregnancy.

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If you had sex on the 22nd, and she tells you on (or before) the 28th that she's been throwing up, and on the 29th that she's taken a pregnancy test with a postive result then I'm pretty sure she's lying.

Women do not get morning sickness that fast, and pregnancy tests usually need more than 7 days since the event to work.

 
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She's totally lying to you! I'm telling you, stop talking to her and don't take her calls. Just ignore her because she's not worth your time. Any girl who would lie to you about something like that and then laugh about it with her sister is not worth your time. She sounds like a major loser. Why are you hanging around and sleeping with such losers for, anyway??

 
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I do agree with Kszan

It sounds like complete lies and id suggest that you get her out of ur life because even if she is actually pregnant it would not be yours seeing as it takes much longer than a week for the symtoms of pregnancy to kick in.

A lot of pregnancy tests suggest that you wait for 2 weeks before you take the pregnancy test to get a positive outcome because some pregnancy tests can also come out positive but if you did it again a week later it could be negative.

 
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What they said. She's just tryin' to mess with ya. Dump this chick. She's a nutcase!

Pregnancy tests will only reveal a false positive once in a while when the one taking it is also on some sort of hormone therapy to induce ovulation. If it ever comes out positive one day and negative the next, it is likely a very short-lived pregnancy resulting in miscarriage. So, if she's pregnant you definitely will know. But to make such a claim one week after sex is unrealistic, as the hCG hormone level is most likely too low.

 
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