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doomcastirons · 02-14-2007, 07:35 PM

It seems as if my girlfriend can't orgasm. She told me she never did and she doesn't know what it feels like. When I rub her clitoris she gets a real kick out of that and she says it feels really really good and that I'm the best at that. I'm just curious. The female orgasm to me is an enigma. Is it possible for a girl to not orgasm or is there something wrong? She told me she can just sit there and make herself feel good just with her mind.

Stupidgirl2008 · 02-14-2007, 08:19 PM

WEll its not unnormal because i know some people who have never had an orgasm before.

doomcastirons · 02-14-2007, 08:28 PM

That's not too much fun

Oh well, as long as she enjoys it I guess.

Stupidgirl2008 · 02-14-2007, 08:39 PM

yah...im sure she will tho eventually....just gives you something to look forward to.

microwave · 02-15-2007, 06:19 AM

Many women don't orgasm until their early 20's. I suggest she get a book on the female orgasm (there are plenty of books that will teach her how to do it). She can read the book and figure it out at home at her own pace.

define_truth · 02-15-2007, 08:07 AM

Not weird, not abnormal. I didn't have an orgasm until my current boyfriend and after some research on how exactly stuff works. I was like your girlfriend; stuff felt really good but there were no fireworks at the end.

As far as the whole making herself feel good with just her mind, that is so normal and amazing. The mind is very, very powerful and there are people that can even bring themselves to orgasm with only their imagination.

Having said all of that, there are some women who have a physiological problem that keeps them from having an orgasm so if after some research and practice your girlfriend still can't get there, it might be worth mentioning to a doctor.

try-ink · 02-15-2007, 04:53 PM

Orgasm is a feeling of pleasurable release(At least, to me it is)

While you are playing with her clits....Was there a point when she feel this intense pleasure, kind of like it...something is coming??

That's orgasm!!!

There is nothing wrong with her.....she just haven't reach that point, yet!

I think..with time, she will get one. And if she's lucky...maybe even multiple

You can relax!

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