Question From a Virgin - Sexual Health - Teens Message Board

Oxygenman22 · 04-13-2007, 08:47 PM

Hi, I'm a Junior in High School and am thinking about becoming sexually active my Senior year. There's an issue that I've been wondering about lately. Currently I have no girlfriend (though there are some girls I'm considering asking out). Although it may seem premature, I want to be knowledgeable beforehand. I've been doing some reading lately, and I've learned that girls often bleed during their first time. I'm worried about hurting a girl, especially since I have a fairly large penis. I've read that large penises can cause more pain than pleasure for women who are inexperienced. Can anyone please give me some advice on how I could prevent this? I can't seem to get out of my head the image of me "going in" and causing her to bleed and scream in pain.

Longview · 04-14-2007, 03:07 PM

sorry hun, but if you decide to have sex with a girl whose a virgin...it most likely will involve some pain for her. its a bummer, but first time for girls always sucks. well id say 95% of girls. I didn't bleed at all when i lost my virginity. some girls dont. but i did practically scream because it was painful. but then after that it was all good. so if you choose to have sex with a virgin, don't expect it to be amazing. unless you're lucky. there's nothing you can really do to prevent it but you could use some lube to help make it slippery lol, or do alot of foreplay. be gentle as possible though. good luck.

define_truth · 04-15-2007, 12:22 AM

I just wanted to say that not all girls bleed and it doesn't always hurt the first time, especially if the guy is being considerate and careful and the girl is turned on. My first time didn't hurt at all and I didn't bleed at all. Some girls bleed because their hymen isn't broken yet but if you go slowly and listen to what the girl tells you, it should be fine.

Having said that, it is considered normal for a girl to bleed and for it to be a little bit uncomfortable. I just wanted to give my 2 cents and let you know that that isn't always the case.