how do you know if your hymen is broken? i want to have sex with my boyfriend but i dont want to bleed as it will be embarressing.. i can talk to him about stuff like that but still its not nice for him. what can i do?
I agree with Thisby. Looking in a mirror at this area will let you see how big the opening is. Masturbation is a great way to prevent pain during your first time. It will get you used to having something inside of you so you will have a general idea of what to expect. It can also make the process happen gradually since YOU will be in control.