What happened..? Please Help !! - Sexual Health - Teens Message Board

young jim · 02-04-2008, 06:18 AM

I Have been With my girlfriend for just over 3 months now. We have a decent sex life and we have a very serious relationship. she is the girl which i first lost my virginity too.

Last night i gave her oral sex while using my finger aswell. She was really getting into it and she almost climaxed. However to tease her i slowed down and stopped her from climaxing. I carried on but then she stopped me. She said that she had gone all light headed and felt dizzy. I was worried that i had done something wrong but she assured me that i hadnt. She told me that to make any girl feel like that from oral sex was a good thing. So i let her calm down abit. Then we both got started again but this time i only used my finger. This is when the problem occured.

No matter what i tried i could not make her wet enough to allow my finger to slip inside. We were both confused on what had happened so decided to have a rest. She then told me that it was hurting her a little. i was still worried That i had done something bad, but she assured me that it was due to her not being relaxed.

Then after a short while we both began to become intimate once more. This time however she got very wet very quickly. It was like she had become ALOT more sensitive to touch inside.
We then proceeded to intercourse and it felt alot tighter than usual.

I would really appreciate any advice or answers to this.
Thanks for taking the time to read.

jen52983 · 02-04-2008, 02:16 PM

Getting a girl to climax is not as easy as it is for guys. With a guy, when the feeling is there, the climax comes almost immediately after. With a girl, if its almost there and then maybe the pace or position switches, she could easily lose it! Which is what sounds like happened with your girlfriend during oral. So the next time she says she close just keep doing what you're doing!

Vigina's are very sensetive! The oral and fingering probably just made her a bit sore and thats why it hurt or felt more sensetive. She just needed some time to relax... which is also probably why she wasn't getting wet.

The time you took inbetween is probably just what her body needed.. which is why later on you both had no problem

young jim · 02-04-2008, 02:51 PM

Thanks For the input Jen

Muchly Appreciated.

tUrRrRa · 02-07-2008, 11:54 AM

I have had that dizzy feeling before! I was also near orgasm when it happened and was in the shower. I would say, yeah it probably means something felt really good! I nearly blacked out and had to go lay down so it was kind of scary. I think my balance kind of just went out and made me so dizzy. Just don't give up on it... it shouldn't happen every time! If it does, I'd talk to a doctor about it so that can be avoided.

If she was dryer after, maybe it was just from that feeling. Maybe she just needed to relax and rest a bit! I agree that women can be very sensitive, so it's nothing to worry about. She may have been stimulated for a while and got a little sore from it. It happens.. after plenty of "good feelings" you can get sore down there from all of it and need a little break.

It's definitely normal for her to get more wet during different times. She may not even realize it. That's just how the female body is!

maree89 · 02-11-2008, 08:22 PM

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Originally Posted by jen52983

Getting a girl to climax is not as easy as it is for guys. With a guy, when the feeling is there, the climax comes almost immediately after. With a girl, if its almost there and then maybe the pace or position switches, she could easily lose it! Which is what sounds like happened with your girlfriend during oral. So the next time she says she close just keep doing what you're doing!

Vigina's are very sensetive! The oral and fingering probably just made her a bit sore and thats why it hurt or felt more sensetive. She just needed some time to relax... which is also probably why she wasn't getting wet.

The time you took inbetween is probably just what her body needed.. which is why later on you both had no problem

Agreed there... Sometimes if you go for too long it can start to hurt.. and once you get us nearly there.. You gotta keep going!!!! Don't stop cuz man it's hard to get it back again...