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Old 02-22-2008, 03:31 PM   #1
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Boyfriend bored with sex...advice plz

I'm 17 and my boyfriend is 18. We lost our viginity to one another. We've only been having sex for about 2 months, but he already complains about how he's bored with it. I don't know what to do, it makes me sad and disappointed in myself. Why is an 18 year old boy bored with sex?!

 
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Re: Boyfriend bored with sex...advice plz

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I'm 17 and my boyfriend is 18. We lost our viginity to one another. We've only been having sex for about 2 months, but he already complains about how he's bored with it. I don't know what to do, it makes me sad and disappointed in myself. Why is an 18 year old boy bored with sex?!

That's very very odd.....I can't imagine why an 18 yr old boy would be bored with sex. Do you have a routine or do you try different things?

 
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Re: Boyfriend bored with sex...advice plz

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I'm 17 and my boyfriend is 18. We lost our viginity to one another. We've only been having sex for about 2 months, but he already complains about how he's bored with it. I don't know what to do, it makes me sad and disappointed in myself. Why is an 18 year old boy bored with sex?!
Maybe having too much sex? Give it a few days/weeks... He should be ready then.Absence makes the heart grow fonder, so it has been said!!

 
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Everything in life is about new things and keeping it interesting! Sex is exactly the same.

 
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Re: Boyfriend bored with sex...advice plz

He may have some sort of problem. He may be embarrased of something?

Try talking to him about it, ask him why he feels this way. Good luck

 
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Re: Boyfriend bored with sex...advice plz

After I was with my first bf for about 3 months, I became bored with kissing and making out. It just wasn't exciting anymore. And I remember not wanting him to touch me anymore, because it had stopped turning me on, which made me feel awkward and guilty. When I was young, I couldn't be excited by the same person for that long. I'm not sure why. Immaturity, I suppose. But, I don't blame my first bf at all. He was a dreamboat and a fantastic kisser.

 
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I think he may have a problem.

I have made love many thousands of times to the same woman & we have never been "bored", no pun intended.

 
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