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Old 08-24-2008, 07:27 PM   #1
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Please help! Very nervous!!!

Hey guys, a few months ago i had surgery on my penis and was catheterized for 2 weeks. After it was removed i had trouble getting erections, it would kinda hurt, and i had no feeling in my left testicle. 5 months later, to this date, it doesnt hurt to get erections anymore, but i'm sure my erection size has gone down a lot ... like 0.5 inches and it just doesnt seem as big anymore. Also, my left testicle is still numb and i have no feeling. Its also a bit red. Now the real problem is, im seeing this girl and im pretty sure were about to have some sexual activity happening soon. I've never masturbated/ejaculated before, even though ive tried many times and did not succeed, but i have gotten a lot of wet dreams so i guess i can produce seemen. im really nervous to get intimate with this girl. my erections are like barely 6inches, and i dont know what will happen when/if she gives me oral. Please please please help me out!

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Old 08-25-2008, 04:29 PM   #2
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Re: Please help! Very nervous!!!

I would suggest that you go to a doctor and ask about the problem with erections and numbness. You should have done that as soon as you realized the problem. Never hesitate to ask a doctor no matter how embarrassing you may think it is.
After you get that problem resolved then move on to the girl issue... which I'm sure won't even be an issue once you see a doctor and get everything taken care of.

Good luck!

Old 08-26-2008, 06:12 AM   #3
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Re: Please help! Very nervous!!!

The doc said that the numbness could last a day, a week, a few months, or even years ... i just want to know if my erection will heal back to normal size

Old 08-29-2008, 10:04 AM   #4
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Re: Please help! Very nervous!!!

Erections depend upon your level of excitement, that's if you're otherwise healthy.
Stress, and other things that distract you will cause you to even loose your erection.
To have and to keep a good erection, you need to be totally relaxed and focused. If not, it's normal for it to be not very good, or to loose it.

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