How do i explain this? - Sexual Health - Teens Message Board

lovekatie1993 · 09-26-2008, 02:20 PM

Me and my boyfriend have just started having sex very recently and i did loose my virginity to him but he did not loose his to me far from it. It now seems like all he wants to do is have sex how do I explane to him that yes i do like sex but i dont want it as much as he does? And i know that he isnt using me because the feelings were very drtong befor anything sexual occured

Magnetic · 09-26-2008, 07:12 PM

Just tell him you want to do some other things. If you keep giving in to him, though, don't expect him to stop trying. Tell him no and that you want to do other things with him for a while before you have sex again. Stick to your guns. If he threatens to leave you, then you will have a better idea of how much he really likes you.