please help me - Sexual Health - Teens Message Board

ricky404 · 07-29-2001, 03:49 PM

im 18 yrs old and a couple years ago i tryed to have sex but i did not know what so i just rubbed agaisnt her vergina and and my penis got very red from rubbing against it.later on i notice my penis gets very red and i have these little bumps only on the right side of my penis now were else what could this be?also i have a discharge that is not yellow or nothing its very very clear.and one time the tip or something just burn no discharge nothing i was just sitting and it just burned for almost the whole day.always when i go to pee when im done it just leaks not dripping it just leaks.i masterbate a lot could that be it.does what i have sound like herpes?cause i hope its not.can any please help those the leaking does it sound like a bladder problem but not nothing major.please give me an answer any body.

Rocky9945 · 07-29-2001, 05:24 PM

I'm assuming you haven't seen a doctor about any of this. In this case, first of all please do make an appointment and talk to your doctor as soon as you can. If for nothing else it will ease your mind. This is what doctors are for, to help you. Please consider this.

Please understand we are not medical doctors here either, so we can't tell you exactly what is going on either. But we can tell you that yes it is possible that you have a STD. You rubbed your penis unprotected, against her vagina. That is considered sexual contact and can spread diseases. BUT that doesn't mean you do have one.

The clear liquid could be pre-ejaculate. As it is normally clear. But once again it may not be. Bladder infections can cause your urine to dribble out as you explained, but once again could be something else.

I would guess from what you have explained here your doctor would ask you to come see him. It could be nothing much or it could be a problem he may be able to fix or at the least start treating.

Best advice, call your doctor and have your self checked.

Welcome to the boards and hope to see you again with some good news!!

ricky404 · 07-30-2001, 03:59 PM

does it sound like herpes?and are their any worse bladder problems.

Rocky9945 · 07-30-2001, 06:44 PM

From your description it's hard to say it could be or couldn't be herpes. The symtoms you listed can mean herpes. But then again they could mean other things.

Not really understanding your second question, but if you mean is there anything worse than a bladder infection? Yes of course. Alot of STD's are alot worse than a bladder infection. Some cannot be cured, most infections in the bladder can be.