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Old 08-18-2002, 07:28 PM   #1
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ok look, when im by myself watchin a movie wit nudity or lookin at porn i can get an erection fine. when im at school and a girl flirts wit me or we jus mess around i get turned on and can get an erection. when im with my girlfriend at like parties or wutever and were chilin with our friends and we jus kiss a lil and she rubs on me it turns me on and i feel i can get an erection but i try not too cause i dont want all my friends seeing me hard ya know..but like about a month ago i was with a girl when i had a lil to drink and we went in the bedroom and we were messing around then she started like rubbin on me and started to give me a blowjob and i started thinkin wut if i dont get hard then i ended up not gettin hard!! and ever since that when im alone with a girl all i think about is i hope i get hard or something of that sorts..and i dont some times..so wut im tryin to figure out is, is all this stuff jus in my head, am i worrying about getin an erection to much and not focusin on the pleasure im gettin, will it pass...wut should i do some1 please reply

 
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Well, it could be you stressing over it or you being drunk or you being tired. Any of those can make it harder for you to have an erection.

 
Old 08-18-2002, 08:43 PM   #3
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yeah i think its just me stressing over it 2 much cause i dont think it was me drinkin cause i had barely had any to drink the last time it happend i think its me worrying about it but i would still like some input on the sitution so please reply

 
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Ok bud, here are some thoughts on what you're dealing with. First, stop worrying so much, this type of thing happens to more guys than they are willing to talk about. Second, our two heads are very connected, so what you're thinking can really impact that lil guy between your legs. Problem is that once it happens to us it becomes really easy for it to happen again because we're so worried that it will. The cure is quite simple, but not always easy....it takes continued trying (oh damn, more risk that it'll happen) but usually things turn out just fine. Here are a couple of tips. You might try laying off the hand for a while and then put yourself in a position where you'll have a chance to use it, chances are your lil guy will be ready for action. Another involves simply not worrying about it and letting things just happen....enjoying the moment so to say. And finally, if your girl is a steady g/f and the two of you are close, just explain what is going on and ask her to help....I bet she'll be willing to keep working with you and things should be fine. I'd say start with her masturbating you and not go straight for intercourse, that way you're sure to have success and less chance for something happening. And heres one thing to remember, there is nothing wrong...you know your penis works because it does for you....so be cool and stop worrying! Hope this helps and remember....you aren't alone here....we've all been there and had this happen!

 
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Lance, You are right on! Don't think it could of been put more accurately.
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