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Old 09-05-2010, 06:40 AM   #1
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i can't get sexually aroused ...

Heyy, liike the title says: I can not get "excited down there" or excited at all for that matter; when it comes to the moments leading up to sex, masturbation, fingering, dry sex, oral....
For me it is just as exciting as school work. I dont get tingles, i dont get wet.
Aren't the teenage years supposed to be the prime sexual years or something? I sure do think about it - alot - just.no.arousal.

Apparently this is called Sexual Arousal Disorder (SAD - ) and it occurs primarily to older women... like those aproaching menopause! This (i hope) can not be happening to me. I am a teen for goodness sake!!

But is there another problem? liike say high cholesterol and depression? Because i probably have these and i am wondering if this could be why i cant get aroused. But could there be another reason?!

Also, I heard viagra helps but i personally would prefer to cure this problem naturally with no medications (im weird like that)

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Old 09-07-2010, 10:56 AM   #2
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Re: i can't get sexually aroused ...

Hi..... You say you are having arousal problems ..do you have any health problems that could be causing this.....If it was me I would see a Doctor and have a full medical work up done blood work and then if everything is alright..then at least I would not have that to worry about...I don't know if you do any regular workouts or some walking or running as then can make you feel great and keep your body it top shape ..or as physically fit as you can be in your own comfort zone..hope this helps and I do believe you are not
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Re: i can't get sexually aroused ...

oops meant to say I do believe you are not alone that other women have this problem also..
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Re: i can't get sexually aroused ...

your lack of arousal could be your body's way of telling you that you're not ready to be sexual yet! Don't force it.....if you're not enjoying it, there is no point in doing it.

 
Old 09-07-2010, 11:09 AM   #5
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Re: i can't get sexually aroused ...

Regardless of what magazines would like us all to believe, not every person has a sex drive. And this applies to far more women than men. Fortunately as a woman you don't need to have an erection in order to have - and enjoy the emotional side of - a sexual relationship with the man you love. As long as your partner understands the situation, and does not have a fragile ego and start getting hangups about you not being sexually excited, there is no reason you can't have a totally fulfilling and happy relationship.

 
Old 10-02-2010, 07:17 AM   #6
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Re: i can't get sexually aroused ...

Maybe your tetosterone levels are too low and/or your estrogen is too high. Yes females need testosterone for the sex drive.

 
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