DystantMind

I'm eighteen and I have a few sexual problems.

I'll start with masturbation. As a teenage boy, I do it alot. Its kind of compulsary and once I think about it I can't stop myself. But when I actually do it, I seem to go too fast. Like, I don't build it up or ease myself in, I just go straight in and try and climax. What happens quite alot is, I think I run away with myself. All of a sudden I'll just lose all my sexual energy and it won't be pleasurable anymore. I just feel my heart beating really fast and no hornyness. About a minute later once I've calmed down i'll be okay to start again. Masturbation doesn't normally last that long for me. I just want to climax really and sometimes I can climax before I've even got to any full on sex (in either porn or imagination).

My second problem is with sex itself. I've had sex with only one person which was my last girlfriend. I didn't last very long at all. Sometimes I felt like ******* within a minute and I had to slow myself down and just wait for a while and then get going again. Obviously this wasn't very good. She said it was okay but I know it must have been pants.

I don't really know what happens, I guess I just lose control when it comes to sex. Is there anything I can do perhaps? I'm getting into this new girl now, but I'm really nervous if it ever comes to sex that I'll just be too fast again and I really don't wanna make a bad impression or anything. Its kinda putting a downer on my self esteem. :-(