Are you asking if your hymen is still intact, after you've stuck two fingers and your boyfriend's penis head in your vagina?
I have no idea, and neither does anyone else here.
Only a gynecologist would be able to tell you.
What does it matter? Physiological virginity is irrelevant in our society, where girls are physically active and many tear their hymens by accident long before they ever have a sexual encounter.
And as for moral chastity... well, you've inserted your boyfriend's penis head into your vagina. You've had a penis in your vagina. So from that perspective, no, you are no longer a virgin.
Not that I think that matters much, either, but I'm aware some people put a great deal of stock in it.
You might want to schedule a gyno exam. Even if he didn't ejaculate in you, there are some STDs that are spread by skin-to-skin contact. One of them is HPV, and it can cause precancerous changes to your cervix that need to be monitored, so you might want to schedule a pelvic and a PAP.
At that time, the doctor can tell you whether or not your hymen is intact, if that's something you're concerned about.
Best of luck.
Last edited by Kali333; 03-27-2011 at 09:00 PM.