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Old 04-07-2011, 08:11 PM   #1
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Cant keep erection during handjob

I can go fine by myself and ejaculate but when my gf and I are having foreplay ill get hard and as soon as my pants go off... limp. I'm young but need help to fix this. Should I stop masturbating to increase arousal or what?

 
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Old 04-21-2011, 08:57 AM   #2
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Re: Cant keep erection during handjob

It could be that she's not very good, in which case if you feel this is a big problem you may want to broach the subject in as nice a way possible and try to give her some pointers. If she's an understanding person she would want to be the best she can for you.
It could also be that you're so worried about keeping it, that your mind isn't on what is happening and you end up losing it, which turns it into a vicious cycle. I also know that when you're distracted by things such as putting on a condom or getting undressed you may also lose it, it's happened to me :/. Try relaxing and just think about what's turning you on, and don't let your mind wander.
Refraining from masturbating for a few days beforehand would also no doubt help maintain your arousal.

 
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