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Old 04-14-2011, 09:50 PM   #1
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Unhappy How to stop thinking about the girls when im a girl?

Let's started w/ this. I just cried while watching love stories about lesbians on youtube. I questioned myself why i have to be like this. why i was watching it. why i really do like the girls.

I look totally straight in my friends's eyes @ school, also i used to have a bf ( but we broke up 2 months cus im confused myself but didn't tell him) Now, i hate myself for begin looking @ the girls in sexual things. In real, sometimes i pretend to be straight just for get in w/ my friends and her bfs and hers friends whatever.. But still whenever i go, i always look @ the girls but try to keep my eyes away and pretend to be like i do like guys.

I've been watching about lesbian movies for two years while i had boyfriends. I think im the weirdest person eva... Im into pretty girls, i don't like the girls who act like boys .. i like girls with long hair, dress like girls and wear make up. There is a college girl i got a crush she happened to be my neighbor, shes 22 and im turning 18.. i totally like her so so much and used to dream about her and me making out together. But think again its not possible cus she has a bf.


I don't wanna be like this anymore...it makes me upset. i would be normal..

 
Old 04-29-2011, 07:43 PM   #2
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Re: How to stop thinking about the girls when im a girl?

You are going through a tough time in your life and I know that it is extremely difficult to figure out what to do. If you are not sure what you want at this point, my suggestion would be to focus on other topics besides what type of person you want to spend your life with. It is not good to suppress feelings but it is also not good to dwell on them to the point that they depress you. In the next few years, you are going to mature into adulthood. As you do so, your brain will most likely make a final decision as to whether you really like guys or girls. No matter what that decision is, remember that there is someone out there who will love you as long as you are true to yourself.

I hope that helps.

 
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