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Old 05-15-2011, 02:17 PM   #1
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Okay, ever since i was a little girl, like 6, i have been masterbating. At the time i didnt know anything about what i was doing, and i dont even know how i started. Well now im older and can't quit, and its awkward to talk to my parents about this any advice?

 
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Old 05-15-2011, 05:49 PM   #2
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Re: masterbating

My advice is to realize that it's perfectly normal and natural to masturbate. You're not doing anything that will hurt you.

 
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Old 05-15-2011, 06:58 PM   #3
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well i went on the internet to see if it was wrong, and they all say it isnt, but i feel wrong when i do it, but i cant quit!

 
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Re: masterbating

That's the thing, you don't have to quit. Not unless you're doing it all the time and it's interfering with your school, family or social life, etc.

Is it?

Probably not, so I wouldn't worry about it. This is just something people do because they have perfectly normal sexual urges. Well, they masturbate or have sex.

Oh, and there's no reason to talk to your parents about it - unless, as I said, it's interfering with your school/life/family etc.

 
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well the thing is i want to tlk to my mom about it, because she is a nurse, but she will tell my dad and thats a little weird to me. and i dont know how she will take it, and what she will say about it. I mean i dont do it everyday and i doesnt effect my school work or anything, its just that to me it seems like a bad thing and something a young girl shouldnt do. But like i said i started when i was little and didnt know what i was doing and i guess it just stuck with me. I just want to be a normal kid, and not do bad stuff like that.

 
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Re: masterbating

no need to talk to your parents about it.....
it's a perfectly natural thing to do.......don't worry!
enjoy yourself, you don't need to stop, it's actually healthy!
it can help you sleep, and it can relieve stress!

 
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Haha thanks i actually tlked to my mom about it cus i felt guilty and she told me when i was young i did it, but she said do it privately and by yourself, but dont do it to much. tht made me feel a little better when she said tht but im still gonna try to quit.

 
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