| Re: Anxiety about having sex the second time
Sorry to hear you are having this problem. Your body does not want to have sex when it is scared. It is the way we were made. Regarding your first time, it is perfectly normal that you finished quickly. Over time, you will develop stamina but you should not expect to go from inexperienced to experienced in just one try. The more open and honest you can be with your girlfriend, the better everything will be. If you explain to her what is happening, she should be understanding and you will most likely become much more relaxed. When you are with her, you have to do your best to concentrate on the present and not the past. One way you may want to do that is to have your girlfriend put the condom on you. That may keep your attention and erection at the same time.
Finally, your brain may not feel you are ready for sex. If that is the case, it is not good to force yourself to do something you really do not want to do.
I hope that helps.
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Nervous about having sex again. Please help!!! 
