are you able to get pregnant if your boyfriend/husband came outside your vagina, like on your stomach and a little bit got near your vagina? my boyfriend and i have been dating for over a year and a half and are very honest and trustworthy of each other; i made sure he pulled out plenty early as well. i felt him come on my stomach but just a little went down to my vagina. ive heard things about sperm dying and it needing to be inside the vagina. i guess im just a little paranoid like most people are when they have sex unprotected. i just need to make sure! thanks!
It sounds like you are using the withdrawal method, which is notorious for it's failure rate. 1 out of 4 couples end up pregnant using that method over a year.
That's 25%. Are you sure you want to be taking that risk?
By the way, one of the reasons it fails is that let's say the guy pulls out, then ejaculates, THEN a bit later goes back in again, he will be depositing all the semen that's still in his urethra. Because of this, a guy technically does not HAVE to ejaculate inside the woman for the woman to become pregnant. Doing the above can also get her pregnant.
he pulled out and a minute later he came. thank you for tellin me this but i guess i wasnt clear enough. he no where near came inside me or pulled out JUST as he was coming. if that happened and he came on my belly and some went towards my vagina can i still get pregnant?
You can get pregnant doing this. The first way you can is from pre-ejaculate. Which is what comes out before he ejaculates and he can't tell when this is comming out so he can't try to pull out during this part. The second way is through sperm seeping back in. It is very unlikely because even if it did get in it probably wouln't make it very far considering a small amount would only get in, however, if you research it, it is possible.
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My boyfriend came on my stomach, the sperm ran down to my vagina area. Not directly on it but between my groin and area. If the spem were to get on your vagina, but you immediately wiped your vagina off, what would be the chances of becoming pregnant?
So would you say that the Withdrawal method is completely safe as long as the guy can control himself. That's what I gather from your posts anyways.
Curious David, it depends what you mean by "control himself", because it is impossible to control pre-ejaculate (which could contain sperm) seeping from the penis.
The withdrawal method is notoriously unreliable, particularly because of the reasons given by aeries in her post above. Do not rely on the withdrawal method -- many young people have regretted it.
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Avoid the Withdrawal Method like the Plague. It is so Unreliable, I got caught by that method at 38 yrs old.
Age means nothing where that method is concerned.
Go visit your Family Planning Centre and get a proper means of Birth Control, there are many types available. Solofelix.
