hi i need a clarification...... my friend is in love for past three yrs... but this year it seems they got much privacy and indulged in sex.... before two days she betrayed the truth behind her love. i jus got shocked........ she shared me that she and her boy friend had nude sex in thier genitals without any condoms or some other protection......... when they reach their erection and hypersex..... and also when the guy is about to ejaculate he takes off his penis........ she told me that having such sex is safe and also its pleasure. yet now her periods is regular and she didnt get pregnant...... is it true? wont she get pregnancy........?
the thing is for more than ten to twenty times they have indulged in direct sex without any birth control measures.......
usually they masturbate and intercourse with their body fluid....... when the guy reach his hypermood and about to ejaculate his sperm, he removes the penis from her vagina..... they have assumed themselves that if they indulge in this practise without sperm insertion they are in safe zone.......... i think u'll be clear now...... my doubt is that wont she get pregnanacy if she continues this practise?
Your friend is not practicing a proper method of birth control. Yes there is a good chance she could become pregnant. Pulling out before ejaculation is sometimes called "withdrawal" and does not guarantee that there is no sperm inside the woman. It only takes one sperm to make a baby.
There's an old "joke" --- What do you call a girl whose boyfriend uses the withdrawal method? The answer is "Mommy".
You are very kind to be concerned about your friend, but ultimately, it's her decision and there's not much you can do about it.
Yes your fears are correct, the "pulling out" method that many teens think is a safe form of birth control, is not, at all. All through the act of intercourse (sex) the guy is leaking sperm into the female. So there is a very good chance that your friend will end up pregnant if she continues to rely on this particular method.