Updates: Parents and Sex - Sexual Health - Teens Message Board

Apollo · 02-06-2003, 04:43 PM

My former girlfriend, we have become firends, has posted on the "Parenting Issues" post, since the thread on this forum was locked by my request. If you are curoious to read it, the link is: [url="http://www.healthboards.com/ubb/Forum88/HTML/000046.html"]http://www.healthboards.com/ubb/Forum88/HTML/000046.html[/url]

Her Username is "BluRose"

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Dramaqueen · 02-06-2003, 10:11 PM

Former? You can't let this break up a beautiful relationship..............

Can you?

Apollo · 02-06-2003, 10:25 PM

It was not my choice.

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Autumn Angel · 02-06-2003, 11:16 PM

I am sorry Apollo I have followed your posts in a few forums and always thought of you as very mature for your age and from what I read from your ex girlfriend she is a very intelligant woman. I really hope she finds who she is and learns to love herself as she seems to be someone that is easily loved by others. I know what low self esteem can do to a person and believe me she has to do this and find herself and maybe after she has done that you both can resume the special relationship you had minus the sex if need be it seems like thats the way it should be for now. Hope things work out.

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Cheers...Autumn
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chitrick · 02-07-2003, 06:48 AM

I am a firm believer that, if it is meant to be...it will be. This breakup may just be temporary. And if not...then there must be something better waiting for you in your future. Personally, I think that at 16 yrs old, you both need to experience more than just each other. Face it...there aren't a whole lot of teen love success stories out there. And there's good reason for that. Granted, you both sound more mature than the average, in a lot of respects. But you still have a lot of things to experience and learn about, before considering yourselves true adults and ready for a lifetime commitment. Good luck with your future Apollo!