Re: What's going on??? Am I just too nervous?
Hi maybe I can help. The reason why you were bleeding cause when a guy's penis enters the girl's vagina for the first time of having sex the opening her vagina breaks which is also called the hymen. The hymen is a mucous membrane that surrounds or partially covers the external vaginal opening. There are minor nerve in the hymen so when it breaks it may hurt. He is your first so you are going to feel discomfort. You probably were bleeding again cause your vagina wasn't fully heal from the first time that you had sex. It's going to feel alittle bit uncomfortable few times cause your vagina is not use to of having sexual intercourse. Here's are tips of what to do. Useing lubricant is good to use if needed. Also before you and your boyfriend have sex do alot of foreplay and cudding, kissing, hugging etc. Tell him what you like done to you and what makes you feel comfortable. The hurting might be also cause by your nerves and probably not arouse enough so before he enters you try to be calm and relax your body and your pc muscles. Make sure you are ready and wet enough for his penis to enter into your vagina. If you are really tight down there that's probably why a larger vibrator gives you a hard time to insert further in you and why you were bleeding from sex. Note: Wait alittle while to have sex again. Let your vagina heal itself. Going to the doctor might be a good idea. Hope this helps
Last edited by Vanilla Kiss; 07-30-2011 at 01:00 AM.