m 21 yr old....the prob wid me is that my when i pull my foreskin the uncovered part(top of penis) is extremly senstive..infact i feel itchy pain when she licks it....i feels pain
as a result i try hard to penetrate ignoring the pain but nothing helps i have to give up in the end..just with oral sex will the senstivness remains same till the life time...extremly worried yr....i have tried oil also while penetrating..but it does nt help.
pain oral too...??
The best thing to do is to desensitize the head of your penis. You could start by rubbing it gently with a washcloth...or something else like that. What you are trying to do is to take care of the tenderness of the head. Because you are not circumcized, the head hasn't been exposed to things, such as boxers, etc.
Hope it helps!
Last edited by ibake&pray; 08-25-2011 at 07:30 AM.
I had the same problem when I became sexually active because that area just wasn't desensitized yet. I began to use lubricant and just rubbed it, increasing pressure gradually and decreasing amount of lubricant. I also started exposing it to different water temperatures in the shower. Maybe you could have her help with some of this? hope that helps