What is your definition of sex? - Sexual Health - Teens Message Board

dustbunnys_baby · 10-28-2002, 01:12 AM

Hey everyone,
I was just wondering what everyones definition of sex is. I don't want the dictionary version. How far do you go before you call it sex and what are your limitations. I think sex can be catigorized as many things. Oral sex, intercourse, foreplay, jacking him off, or fingering her. These things are all called sex in my eyes. What's your opinion? Much love Sunnie

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xaphania · 10-28-2002, 01:47 PM

i wouldn't call all of those things "sex," i consider sex to just be the intercourse part. the only time i would consider oral, anal, handjobs etc. to be sex is if it were at the same time as intercourse. does that make any sense? basically i wouldn't want to call those things sex because i've done those but i haven't had sex, so at this point i'd need to distinguish sex from the rest. now i'm just babbling.

Theresa15 · 10-28-2002, 10:22 PM

Sex is sex. Intercourse between a consenting man and woman. Oral, anal etc.etc. is just sexual interactions, and is not the actual deed of SEX! Get it?

Woman*of*the*night · 10-28-2002, 11:16 PM

I Disagree, 'Sex' comes from 'Sexual intercourse' and sexual intercourse is the act or a male penetrating his penis into a womans vagina. Weather he or she climaxes or not its still sex, you dont even have to move at all and it is still, by definition, sex. Anything less than this is not sex, even Anal sex is not actually 'sexual intercourse'.

lascot · 10-29-2002, 12:56 AM

I disagree... to me sex is a feeling; not just a mechanical process. As you age you may agree. Also,--and guite honestly, there are many differnt types of copulation. That's part of what makes the whole thing fun.