I want to mess around, but I don't want a baby! - Sexual Health - Teens Message Board

KiTtEnGrS117 · 10-30-2002, 08:07 PM

I know that this is the same thing that I had in the other one but no one seems to be replying and I really need to be more secure about this! I have no idea what to do and I need to be reassured that things will be okay, or have someone make reality kick in for me!

On Sunday I was over at my boyfriend's house and we were messing around. He had fingered me that day before and then later after he washed his hands he did again.

Later on I started to give him a hand job and he ejaculated but I had all my clothes on. Some did get on my pants but we cleaned it off really well. We both rinsed our hands right after it happened.

About 30 mins later we went upstairs and he washed again 3 more times with hot, and I mean HOT water and a lot of soap. And I did the same.

We later went downstairs and he fingered me again and now I don't know if I can get pregent. I should be getting my period soon but I am so worried.

What I really want to know is how long sperm lives outside the body and if it was safe what we did after.

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Stephi

Blastoff9600 · 10-30-2002, 10:35 PM

I already answered your other post. The information is accurate. Chances are NIL(meaning no chance) that you are pregnant with the precautions you and your bf took.

Woman*of*the*night · 10-30-2002, 11:48 PM

**** I cant imagine what its going to be like when you and your boyfriend start having sex. I think you need to chill out a little, maybe go on the pill or something to ease your mind a bit.

Dramaqueen · 10-31-2002, 01:52 PM

Wow good on you for being so careful, its great.

However you don't want to be stressing the whole time your fooling around. How about you try a birth control pill or something? That will help to put your mind at ease alot!

nicola76 · 11-01-2002, 03:42 AM

Just try to relax. You and your boyfriend took a lot of precautions. There's no chance that you're pregnant. Continuing to stress yourself out like this will just make your period late and cause even more stress! Relax.

When/if you and your boyfriend decide to start having sex I would suggest visiting your family doc or Planned Parenthood to get on some birth control. The pill along with condoms should make you feel more at ease.

Take care!

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