Breaking hymen - Sexual Health - Teens Message Board

Gen13 · 12-16-2002, 12:10 PM

Hey All!
I know this question is a lil outta the ordinary but...how can I pop my own cherry(hymen)? I am terrified of my first time being painful and would rather me pop it than any one else. Wouldn't that make it less painful? So how would one do it? Thanx for all your info!
Gen13
age 17

MonsterBiceps · 12-16-2002, 12:18 PM

If your boyfriend is a loving person, you should be ok. Just take it slow and make sure you are wet enough. If you feel too nervous and aren't wet enough, use some ky jelly.

But if you want to get some experience ahead of time, you are going to need a vibrator, probably a smooth thinner one as opposed to one of the penis like vibrators. You will need to be over 18 to enter an adult store, or have a credit card to order online. Otherwise, you will need to find some house hold item, that fits the description, and put a condom on it.

Have fun, lol

Ogrt48 · 12-16-2002, 12:52 PM

Let your boyfriend do it, some boys like to lick up the mess afterwards.

wrin · 12-16-2002, 12:53 PM

Since everyone is built differently, there's no one particular way to break it. Even a vibrator might not do it.

I did it with a finger, and I didn't bleed one drop.

Some people bleed lots, and some people don't bleed, and some people don't even have one! It's possible to break it by doing normal daily activities. And once you're done with puberty, eventually, ending roundabouts age 25 but this varies for everyone, it will retract and pull up and shrivel away.

Chickyboom · 12-16-2002, 04:19 PM

So wait a minute, you mean if you're still a virgin in your mid-20s or so you might not ever get your "cherry popped"? I never heard that before. Is there any way to tell if you still have one - like....can you see it in a mirror, or what? Also wrin you said you did it with a finger - how did you know if you didn't bleed at all?